Saturday, May 30, 2009

Random Rant...

I was asked to write something for http://www.divatoolbox.com....awesome website btw for women all over the world dealing "real life" and being successful. I recommend this website as a go to place to find any question or inspiration you need ;P....sooo:

Here's a very general essay of an random rant for inspirational purposes of all women out there who can relate....hope you like it.
I really couldn't find a topic to write about since the topics I had to chose from were out of my league I suppose as far as the type of writing I normally do. But I chose to write about careers and work life balance, because I know it's not easy. It's not easy being a woman in a man's world, and be able to juggle all our other feminine instincts and responsibilities that go along with it.
Being a mother of 4, Iike all other mommies out there you put your kids first, their well being in sacrifice of your own and you put your husband on the pedestal to care for him...with all this going on, you end up forgetting yourself at times.
As true DIVAs here on this website I know you relate to what I mean when I say, with all these hats we wear, sometimes it's hard not to break down. But I want to send the message out that we are not alone and if we can inspire each other to put even the smallest amount of time and effort to just US we can all heed our calling and make an even bigger difference in this world. We can be our husbands' best friend and support; we can be our children's anchor and mentor and we can be who we were meant to be and touch the lives of others.
I believe there is balance even at times it's chaotic, but it only take s a few minutes like what I am doing right now to focus on who we really are, even its rushed but it’s from the heart. I am a writer, poet and artist; I am taking the time the show that we can have both a successful career and do what we are passionate about. We can achieve not only the maternal things instinctively through hard work and be the best mother and wife but we can also be the best of who we really are spiritually beyond what we thought we couldn't do. This is a very general article, and I apologize for that but my message is, find yourself and don't give up to do what you love, whatever thing that can make you complete, even when situations get hectic; there is a great personal satisfaction that we can be able to express ourselves and love unconditionally beside the obvious: our family, our obligations BUT most importantly the person you see in the mirror so when you see yourself, you can smile and tell yourself you're complete, ready to face the day and do it all over again because it's worth the effort knowing it's just you.
-Rona Aying Llanos

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