Yes, it's true sometimes love just isn't enough. Love doesn't pay the bills. Love is when you get this feeling of infatuation over someone you're attracted to but infatuation fades and that's when couples break up or cheat. I do believe love is more of a chemical reaction in the body when they are attracted physically to a person, and this triggers the emotional and mental part. That's why people can say opposites attract, even opposites mean they are probably not compatible to begin with and have different views and values. It's easy to say you love someone or you are in love, but the hardest part is to stay in love. And to make a love last there are a few pretty simple components to look out for. (1) It takes two, make sure you both want the same thing out of the relationship. (2) It takes work to make a relationship last and grow, both must be willing to grow together and accept the changes together. (3) If there is no romance, there has to be a strong foundation of friendship to make a romance re bloom from. (4) And make sure there is room for consistent garnish for one another, of trust, respect and honesty.
There will be dull moments, and times you will need space from each other to do things for yourself and spend time with other friends or family without your significant other; but that is ok. Separation grows appreciation, take the time away from your partner to do things for yourself and rediscover yourself. It will make you a better person and more interesting. Go out on dates with your partner, do things you used to do but haven't done, or do things that are totally spontaneous and recreate some experiences and make new memories together. Make time to bond but at the same time give each other space to be an individual.
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Thanks a lot it was a great support, now to make a love last.... is simple by using your advice. Thanks
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